What’s important in giving head?
AH: Attitude. If your man isn’t convinced that you love what you’re doing he isn’t going to get anywhere near as much out of it. Make certain that it is apparent that you enjoy it. I find a mixture of delicacy and aggressiveness is most effective. The feeling that you know if you can handle it, but are driven to attemp and succeed.
How do you begin a blowjob?
AH: Kissing and holding is a good place to start. I begin by caressing a man all over eventually working my way down to his crotch. I touch him there very quickly and lightly and then touch his legs on the inside portion of the thigh. From there I work my way back to his cock and balls, which I play with. I begin to work my way down his body when I feel the time is appropriate by kissing his shoulders and nipples. Sucking on his nipples. I press my hand down hard on his stomach and follow it down with my mouth to his crotch. Holding on to his balls with my hand, tickling them, I flicker my tongue lightly over the nerve at the head of his cock. Look up at him and kiss him there too! While sucking on the nerve I run my mouth up and down the column of his cock until I put it wholly in my mouth. I’m very careful to keep my teeth out of the way so as not to hurt – although it can be a turn on to give it a slight nip. While sucking on his cock I keep my mouth taught and flexible and move it back and forth slowly and rapidly over the head of his prick. Tease him, play with him, use varying speeds, do what turns you on and it will turn him on.
Do you use much tongue?
AH: I use the tongue all the time I am involved in actual sucking. Against the nerve and around the head. Eventually work your way down to his balls and while holding them lightly, lick them gently over. Then place one and then the other and suck on them. I put both in my mouth finally and suck on them. I look at him while I am doing all of this so he can see me and I can see him.
What’s your view on “deep throat”?
AH: Giving “deep throat” can be a terrific turn on. I learned to do it by lots of practice. You overcome the gag reflex and take his cock down into your throat where it narrows. He experiences a tight feeling around the head of his cock. From going so far down the saliva begins to flow and you find yourself well lubricated. I do it slowly and deliberately feeling my lips over every square inch of his cock, looking at my man.
Do you use your hands too?
AH: Using your hand while you suck the head of his cock is an extreme turn on as well and is a good way to get him off. The strength and rapidity you can use then becomes overpowering to the man. If you’ve worked him and yourself into enough of a frenzy this is when he will come. When I feel his cock get a particular kind of extreme hardness and his movements become almost reflexive I know that it is time and I keep his cock deep in my mouth fully surrounded by warmth and movement.
What do you do when he comes?
AH: I maintain a steady sucking motion while he comes, swallowing it as he squirts out the end of his cock. Then I stay with him until the end of the orgasm and then gently kiss him all over his cock, balls and face. End with lots of cuddling and love.